to love or be loved?

i was reading through my BEST FREN'S blog today... so happens that she put up a new entry in who knows how long... so anyway... at the end of her entry... she posed this question... which is better to love or be loved? i believe that each person has a diff answer... well... for me, it is to love... i dont have to be loved in return.... one... im like used to it... lol... two... i dunno.... because for me... i'll just give everything... and it doesnt matter how much i get back in return... sigh...

so anyway... this question is similar to one which kelvin posed me some time back... would u still marry a woman who is together with you only for your money... and if u were to go broke, would leave u straight away.... my answer quite obvious rite? lol... of course i would... as long as i love her... kelvin disagreed of course... but that doesnt matter... so ya.. sometimes.. i think i'm weird... i dunno... but i believe in how i feel and i follow my heart... so i guess i cant go wrong there rite?